Crying on Thoreau's Cabin

 

Concord, Mass -- My tears surprised me this morning, probably because they burst from my eyes before I got out of my car. The mere sight of a sign pointing to Walden Pond was all it took for the gusher to start.

The place and the man who made it famous had lived only in my imagination for two and a half decades before I finally made today's pilgrimage. My relationship with Henry David Thoreau began when I was in high school. Today I found myself sitting on the very spot that held his cabin ... the place where he wrote so many of the words that would guide me through my life to find its joys and comfort me in its pains.

I pulled out my own journals today, sat on one of the stones that marks the outline of where his cabin stood and wrote some lines of my own.

I see Walden Pond as he saw it from this very door. This place is so much more magnificent than I had imagined. People have always told me that the pond was small and the area too developed. Though I can imagine the tiny beach fills with swimmers and sunbathers on warm days, this is on the other side. The pond is a big one as ponds go and more resembles a small lake.

Here, in the back of the woods where Thoreau lived, it is quiet. I hear only the sounds of acorns falling, the leaves rustling in the wind while turning red and yellow by the moment, birds chirping, and the occasional person passing by. A few fat drops of this morning's rain pelt these pages as they dive from the tree tops. This place seems filled with as much solitude now as it did then.

If you have not had the occasion to get to know Thoreau yourself, you should race to a book store and buy a copy today. It could change your life the way it did mine. Thoreau can help you figure out what's important, give you the courage to do things you didn't know you could do, and make you see the world as if your eye sight suddenly magnified. He'll also give you a giggle or two. (The scholars often forget the man could crack a joke.)

I took Thoreau's words to heart at an early age because he spoke to me both about the meaning of life and what it means to be a writer.

"I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately," he wrote, "to front only the essential facts of life, and see if i could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. ... I wanted to live deep and suck out the marrow of life, and to live so sturdily and Spartan-like as to put to rout all that was not life, to cut a broad swath and shave close, to drive life into a corner, and reduce it to its lowest terms, and, if it proved to be mean, why then to get the whole and genuine meanness of it, and publish its meanness to the world; or if it were sublime, to know it by experience, and to be able to give a true account of it in my next excursion."

He also placed inside me a land conservation ethic before I knew what the term meant. (It's certainly no coincidence that I now work as a communications director for The Wilderness Society.) He affirmed my love of solitude. He taught me the virtue of living simply. He showed me that a man can in the course of his time get as much out of life as he puts back into it.  

Perhaps more important than any of those things, he helped give me the courage to chase every wild dream I conjured up ... to spend my life taking big swings, to overcome failure, and, well, to thump my chest a little when I pulled off something spectacular.

"As I have said," he wrote, "I do not propose to write an ode to dejection, but to brag as lustily as chanticleer in the morning, standing on his roost, if only to wake my neighbors up."

Thoreau's words lingered in my head as I sat there scribbling in my own journal, whose pages are now

approaching 7,000 in number. I wrote that I could sit there all day writing about how much Thoreau means to me but that I could do more of that later.

Now I think it's time to honor him by continuing my own walk in the woods so that I might drink in this experience more deeply. I can spend all day here if I want. "Time," after all, "is but the stream I go a fishing in."

Then I pulled out the dog-eared copy of Walden Pond I've kept with me for the past 17 years -- its pages held together with equal parts hope and tape -- and read a few passages aloud to myself.

I resumed my walk and felt Thoreau's presence so strongly that I kept staring at the mud as if expecting to see his footprints and discern which way he was going today. My mind, as it always does when I get a good hike going, slowed down. Part of the reason I came on this trip was to think more about some of the new dreams I harbor for what I'd like to do with my life in the years ahead ... to set a few compass points that I might check each morning.

I inhaled a quick lunch and drove to the Concord Museum to see Thoreau's desk. I also saw one of the lanterns placed above Boston as old Paul Revere made his famous ride. Both artifacts were thrilling discoveries as I didn't know the museum existed before today.

Nor did I realize Thoreau was buried here and that his grave still exists.

I quickly found his resting place at Sleepy Hollow Cemetery and was overcome in a different way, feeling an urge to pull out my journal again and write him a letter. It went like this:

Dear Mr. Thoreau,

I sit now by your grave, Mr. Thoreau. I confess I only moments ago learned I've been mispronouncing your name all these years. A woman at the Concord Museum said you pronounced it like you were a very thorough man, not like I throw a baseball. Everybody else gets it wrong, too, so I hope you can forgive us.

I can't believe how tiny your tombstone is. It's like a baby's. It can't be more than nine inches high and wide. And it just says "Henry." No epitaph. No nothing. Your name and birth and death dates are as you know with the rest of your family's. I see your parents John and Cynthia, your sisters Helen and Sophia and your beloved brother John, Jr.

I guess I expected something grand, something that in death represents how big you were -- though I realize your fame multiplied by an infinite factor after you died. Still, it's puzzling. Such a humble little stone for a man who made such a big impact on the world -- not only during your time but in the generations that have followed.

I came here today to thank you for everything you've done for me. I'm not really sure how to properly thank a dead man but I at least wanted to visit you to pay my respects. I've known you for more than half of my life, which puts you in the company of but a select few of my friends.

How do I thank you? You saw that I spent the morning at your cabin by Walden Pond. I could feel your presence there as I do here. You must still entertain a lot of company these days. I see a note on your grave and that some people have built tiny little cabins with twigs. I see someone left coins in a language I don't recognize. Russian maybe. I see someone else left a tiny piece of metal with perhaps Chinese characters on one side and the English word "balance" on the other. A group of German students just came. That note, by the way, is from a pair of people from Galicia, Spain, and they left their names for you. I'm not sure if you read Spanish but Irisarri and Maria wrote it. It says "All of us who love nature are in debt to you, father of conservation and grandfather of ecology."

Even 147 years after your death, you continue to touch the minds and hearts of people around the world. You have clearly achieved what every writer, and would-be writers like myself who pale in comparison, dreams of -- eternal life. One of my darkest fears, apart from never publishing more than I have now, is that all of my words -- my magazine articles, news reports, newspaper columns, blogs and these journal pages will also disappear with me when I move on from this world.

This moment of self pity aside, I do want to thank you again for what you've done for me. I'm wearing your face on my T-shirt right now and everybody is asking me where I got it and what my connection is to you, H.D. (I hope you don't mind I have long called you that.) I told a woman who is on the board of The Thoreau Society I met this morning that you have guided me through much of my life. I guess you heard that but I wanted to tell you again. Your words expanded my mind at a tender age and made me think the world offered me much greater potential for living greatly than I might have otherwise believed. You at different times helped build my internal compass and at others helped me stay true to it.

One of my worst fears in college -- one that I rebelled against -- was that I would graduate and go work a normal job to the day I die without ever having truly embraced life. Thanks in part to you, I ventured to Alaska and to Spain and had all kinds of adventures -- not only in travel but in the personal and professional facets of my life. For the most part, I have made mighty good use of the time I've had on this planet. I've certainly sucked a lot of marrow out of it. I've always made consistent efforts to give back to the world, too, again following distantly in your footsteps.

I credit your hand as among the most influential, the most responsible, for so many of the best decisions I've made in my life. I am truly grateful beyond what I have the words to express.

You will live in my heart forever, and I hope that you continue to bless me with your guidance.

Sincerely,

Christopher D. Lancette

Comments

[Relax Max]

Perhaps I should revisit Thoreau with a less cynical mind. I may. Thank you for this post.

[AM]

This is truly moving, and thanks so much for sharing.

"I wanted to live deep and suck out the marrow of life"

There is no other way to live.

[Jonathon Flaum]

In his conclusion to Walden, Thoreau wrote: "there is an incessant influx of novelty into the world, and yet we tolerate incredible dullness." the novelty is our authentic human voice. Thank you Chris, for sharing yours with us. It brings me closer to what matters.

Jonathon

[Cassandra Frear]

I enjoyed your post about Walden Pond and your letter to Thoreau. He made a powerful impact on your life -- impossible to measure. There are writers that have been that way for me, too. C.S. Lewis is one example. I just picked up a large anthology of John Muir's reflections. I admire the way he brought a spiritual awareness to his descriptions of the natural world.

[Kierra]

Thanks for sharing this post! Thoreau has had the same effect on my life, and I have been revisiting him as I make some big changes to my life. www.apumpkintomyself.blogspot.com

[Rob]

Great post. I find him to be somewhat inaccessible but I think I will take another shot!

[Paula Little]

I'm so jealous! What an amazing adventure--thanks for sharing. Looking forward to more...

[Hannah Lee Jones]

Hi Christopher: I am also a life-long admirer of Thoreau and am inspired by the story of your pilgrimage. I have yet to make one myself, but dream of doing that soon, and know that when it happens I will be as moved as you were. You wrote such a beautiful letter to our hero! And what affected me most about it was that evidently I am not the only person who has been writing to Henry. You seem like a busy individual, but if you happen to have a little time for tea each morning, I post daily letters to our friend on my blog at http://letterstohenry.wordpress.com/. Best wishes! -Hannah

[michael jameson]

as the greatest teacher of the human condition through nature i have been a student and writer of thoreau since i wandered off and lived in the woods alone for a year after reading a story about a boy that had read thoreau and done the same for several months, the book was called ''my side of the mountain'' ,i was only 12 or 13,i new hunger and ended my journey due to a great loneliness,but all that experience made me the man i am today,and can never live to far from nature,thoreau has given mankind the tools to live a great life,anew life filled with wonderment and music,read and reflect upon his teachings it is the greatest gift you can give yourself. mike jameson [email protected]

[Chris]

Thank you for sharing that story. I continue to be amazed by how huge is the universe of people who Thoreau continues to touch even today. I hope other people follow your suggestion and give themselves the gift of getting to know Mr. Thoreau.

[michael jameson]

i know thoreau now as i know myself,once in every so many years a man comes along that can look at himself from the outside,he questions,makes observations,and reflects,a worthiness of sharing,teaching,for the good of all.let each man make a journey of himself,he knows the truth and if he lives it,he has happiness. michael jameson [email protected]

[A.M.]

This really will Thoreau your emotions around

[M]

I unconditionally agree that his writings and philosophy have a huge reach, but I don't think his tombstone size is at as puzzling as you make it ou to be. It is an embodiment and testament to the simplicity with which he strove to live, a deliberate act that was not undone by those who took care to prepare him after his departure from this world. Rather than question this in a negative light, this simple stone ought to be recognized as the ultimate testimonial to his fidelity to his guiding credence that he shared with other through his powerful and influential literary voice.

[Chris L]

M -- your point is a very good one and one I had not considered. That makes me consider the tomb stone in a different light. Thank you for sharing the thought.